Those with empty cups are easily manipulated...
What I mean by that, is that those who create and perpetuate deficiencies within themselves.. of safety, of variety, significance etc... are easily sold to, because the space and the desperation are open targets.
If you do not fill yourself up with love, you will latch onto and self-betray for anyone who shows you the slightest amount of affection.
If you do not fill yourself up with significance, anyone who gives you focussed attention will have control of you.
If you do not fill yourself up with adventure, anyone who brings variety or difference will be able to lead you.
Survival Needs are not ‘nice to haves’ - they are non-negotiables that your system will get (come hell or high water) and wherever it finds them, it will create patterns (eg addiction) for.
So to say it another way..
If you do not want fear-mongering to affect or control you, regain safety within yourself.
If you don’t want to be at the beck and call of anyone who shows you the slightest bit of attention, regain your dignity via self-worth.
If you don’t want to be paranoid and debilitated by conspiracies, fill up your adventure and variety cup by doing the scariest thing of all: taking off your own layers, uncovering your soul, and living your purpose.
Hint: it likely has nothing to do with your current ‘job’.
And if you need help with any of this, get a coach. Elevating you beyond the base survival frequencies is what we’re here for 🖤